Quite by accident today I found the number of a woman who resides in Mobile that provides midwifery services. Midwifery, however is illeagal in Alabama, so in that case she provides doula services.
We had a good chat, and even if she cannot attend my birth she put me in touch with other people with like minds so that I can maybe meet people and have a social life.....
Alabama is certainly not as progressive when it comes to childbirthing options, nursing and cloth diapers as well as general naturopathy......
If I could have it my way, I'd have our little lady at home in the bathtub....probably be ten times safer than having her in a hospital anyway....
Friday, September 5, 2008
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Lavender: My latest form of crack
With nesting in full swing....and me in my 27th week, I am completely passionate and obsessed with....
LAVENDER.
Not so much the color, but the smell. I want to use it everywhere. In my laundry detergent, my body wash, as a room diffuser...you name it.
Most likely I will be sickened by this smell after my pregnancy, but for now.....it's my crack.
Going home in 13 days for baby showers and family greetings. I simply can't wait!!!!
Grant says I'm starting to look pregnant. I saw a picture of myself naked. I was horrified.
I want my body back! :)
LAVENDER.
Not so much the color, but the smell. I want to use it everywhere. In my laundry detergent, my body wash, as a room diffuser...you name it.
Most likely I will be sickened by this smell after my pregnancy, but for now.....it's my crack.
Going home in 13 days for baby showers and family greetings. I simply can't wait!!!!
Grant says I'm starting to look pregnant. I saw a picture of myself naked. I was horrified.
I want my body back! :)
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Belly rub, anyone?????
Since my pregnancy began, I have had more than one advance toward my ever-growing belly. Relatives and strangers alike have been shooed away by my lioness talons. Eighty percent of women have had their pregnant belly touched without an invitation at some point. Some women love the attention, others like me avoid the belly-rub at all cost.
I've done some soul-searching to figure out why. Firstly, I've discovered that no one likes to be reminded of weight gain....no matter how miraculous in nature. My belly bump is also small and undeveloped---most people still insist that I don't look my 6 months pregnant. I am not a buddha, but that's how I feel. Although I am lucky, I'm pretty sure rubbing my expanding waistline will not grant you any wishes.
Secondly, I am a very affectionate person, but if you don't sleep in my bed I tend to reduce that touching to your arm, shoulder or maybe a head pat. My personal space is important to me. The area between my armpits and my who-ha are off limits, according to Mr. Gosier, who in Kindergarten told us not to let anyone touch us where our bathing suit covered. It is, after all still my body...I know I am merely a host....but I am still a person.
Which brings me to number three. I am still a person. A person going through an identity crisis, but a person, nonetheless. Its as if because of my ever-growing belly, I no longer exist.
Fourthly, and perhaps most burning within me is that I'm practicing my new mommy skills, and I know this. I am very aware that there is a baby in my belly. I feel her moving all the time. This brings out a lioness within me, with talons blazing! The urge to protect and nurture is very much a part of my life, even if the little bugger is still en utero.
So if you please, refrain from touching my belly unless you ask or have been invited. It's not meant to be offensive...or weird. Its just part of who I am.
And watch out you die-hards---I might just reach over and rub your belly! :)
I've done some soul-searching to figure out why. Firstly, I've discovered that no one likes to be reminded of weight gain....no matter how miraculous in nature. My belly bump is also small and undeveloped---most people still insist that I don't look my 6 months pregnant. I am not a buddha, but that's how I feel. Although I am lucky, I'm pretty sure rubbing my expanding waistline will not grant you any wishes.
Secondly, I am a very affectionate person, but if you don't sleep in my bed I tend to reduce that touching to your arm, shoulder or maybe a head pat. My personal space is important to me. The area between my armpits and my who-ha are off limits, according to Mr. Gosier, who in Kindergarten told us not to let anyone touch us where our bathing suit covered. It is, after all still my body...I know I am merely a host....but I am still a person.
Which brings me to number three. I am still a person. A person going through an identity crisis, but a person, nonetheless. Its as if because of my ever-growing belly, I no longer exist.
Fourthly, and perhaps most burning within me is that I'm practicing my new mommy skills, and I know this. I am very aware that there is a baby in my belly. I feel her moving all the time. This brings out a lioness within me, with talons blazing! The urge to protect and nurture is very much a part of my life, even if the little bugger is still en utero.
So if you please, refrain from touching my belly unless you ask or have been invited. It's not meant to be offensive...or weird. Its just part of who I am.
And watch out you die-hards---I might just reach over and rub your belly! :)
Saturday, June 21, 2008
I love a parade.......
*Please note: images posted below are not ACTUAL images from lastnight....we didn't bring the camera, and even if we did...I STILL cannot find my card reader. Priority for this weekend! :)
Lastnight Grant came home from work a tired treeman. We had decided to order in pizza and watch a movie.....but all of a sudden, my Grant decided to have us pack up and go downtown.
Grant used to surprise me a lot. He'd hear about an event, call me from work and say "Get dressed up! We're painting the town red!!!" Lastnight there was a parade in downtown Mobile to "Celebrate Mobile". I love a good parade, but there is nothing quite like going to a parade in Mobile.
Our parades come complete with bands, floats, and BEADS!!!! Since it is the off season, and college kids are all at home, it was not as busy as the pictures you see below, which were taken during Mardi Gras. Mobile, incidentally was the birthplace of Mardi Gras---not New Orleans as is the common belief. We do our Mardi Gras a bit differently for sure----it's more family centered....all you have to do to get something is throw your hand up and say "Throw me something mister!!!"
We caught teddy bears, and other stuffed animals, which we gave away to older, more season ladies. We caught moonpies, and Reese's cups and of course....Mardi Gras beads. You end up catching so many throughout the season of Mardi Gras! Grant found two little girls that weren't wearing any gave his away.
I love the marching bands, although good ol' LA would shine in comparison....many were off in their stepping, not standing tall...and when the parade had to stop they were talking and carrying on. Their drum lines played pretty well, though.
After the parade we went to Grants old work to have a bite to eat. I realized the other day how infrequently this is going to happen when our Little Girl comes into the world. I think we have enough love to give, but I will certainly miss....in some ways....it being just us.
This is what some of the floats look like----and this is how crowded it is
during Mardi Gras!
I hope our Little Lady gets to be an Azalea trail maid!
These are ladies that do exceptionally well in their studies in highschool.
They are taught ettiquette and get to make appearances all over Mobile in their
frilly dresses, parasols and hats. Although it is a small picture, you can see the Queen---she's dressed in blue.
Order of Inca float; Civic center in the background.
Lastnight Grant came home from work a tired treeman. We had decided to order in pizza and watch a movie.....but all of a sudden, my Grant decided to have us pack up and go downtown.
Grant used to surprise me a lot. He'd hear about an event, call me from work and say "Get dressed up! We're painting the town red!!!" Lastnight there was a parade in downtown Mobile to "Celebrate Mobile". I love a good parade, but there is nothing quite like going to a parade in Mobile.
Our parades come complete with bands, floats, and BEADS!!!! Since it is the off season, and college kids are all at home, it was not as busy as the pictures you see below, which were taken during Mardi Gras. Mobile, incidentally was the birthplace of Mardi Gras---not New Orleans as is the common belief. We do our Mardi Gras a bit differently for sure----it's more family centered....all you have to do to get something is throw your hand up and say "Throw me something mister!!!"
We caught teddy bears, and other stuffed animals, which we gave away to older, more season ladies. We caught moonpies, and Reese's cups and of course....Mardi Gras beads. You end up catching so many throughout the season of Mardi Gras! Grant found two little girls that weren't wearing any gave his away.
I love the marching bands, although good ol' LA would shine in comparison....many were off in their stepping, not standing tall...and when the parade had to stop they were talking and carrying on. Their drum lines played pretty well, though.
After the parade we went to Grants old work to have a bite to eat. I realized the other day how infrequently this is going to happen when our Little Girl comes into the world. I think we have enough love to give, but I will certainly miss....in some ways....it being just us.
This is what some of the floats look like----and this is how crowded it isduring Mardi Gras!
I hope our Little Lady gets to be an Azalea trail maid!These are ladies that do exceptionally well in their studies in highschool.
They are taught ettiquette and get to make appearances all over Mobile in their
frilly dresses, parasols and hats. Although it is a small picture, you can see the Queen---she's dressed in blue.
Order of Inca float; Civic center in the background.
Friday, June 20, 2008
What the French Toast?
I had always imagined the perfect order of things...you find someone, you like them...they like you...you fall in love and get married and THEN you have babies.
I guess things don't always happen as we plan.
Yesterday I spent most of the day setting up a registry. I had an inkling babies were expensive, but I assure you I really had no clue. I asked two friends to look at my preliminary list....and of course...they had more input. Which meant more to add to the list...which means my already expensive list seems to be even more expensive!
I'm glad there are a lot of folks that love this Little Lady. We really do need their help!
Setting up a registry is fun.....but completely overwhelming.
I have come to realize that a person is growing inside me. One that is not going to be unable to fend for itself in anyway...will make messes....and will add more "stuff" to our already small apartment......
but i know I'm just going to be smitten. :)
I guess things don't always happen as we plan.
Yesterday I spent most of the day setting up a registry. I had an inkling babies were expensive, but I assure you I really had no clue. I asked two friends to look at my preliminary list....and of course...they had more input. Which meant more to add to the list...which means my already expensive list seems to be even more expensive!
I'm glad there are a lot of folks that love this Little Lady. We really do need their help!
Setting up a registry is fun.....but completely overwhelming.
I have come to realize that a person is growing inside me. One that is not going to be unable to fend for itself in anyway...will make messes....and will add more "stuff" to our already small apartment......
but i know I'm just going to be smitten. :)
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Ark Building for dummies......
Highly recommended movie that G and I saw lastnight: Evan Almighty
Fashioned after Bruce Almighty, the movie is chuck full of laughs and VERY clean.....I mean almost squeaky.
G and I were both very tired lastnight as Tuesday we did a tree job together---yes, at 4 months pregnant I was out there helping him drag brush to the road. Little Lady is earning her keep before she gets here!
We had a quick dinner and then watched this movie from start to finish. This is a rarity because Grant and I rarely agree on what is entertaining.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Economy Busters (or Frugal Momma!!!)
Yesterday I went grocery shopping for the usual. Lately, however I have been checking out the Drug Store ads. Seems every one of them is having a BOGO sale this week. I guess I should pay more attention..... Here are my Walgreen's purchases this morning.
Planter's dry roasted peanuts 20 oz jar BOGO 3.49 saved 3.49
Planter's honey roasted peanuts 12 oz can BOGO 3.49 saved 3.49
In fridge drink dispenser (for sweet tea) BOGO 6.49 saved 6.49
(*our old one was in BAD need of replacement!)
Sunlight dish detergent 12 oz bottle BOGO 1.79 saved 1.79
Comet BOGO .99 saved .99
Coffee mate creamer BOGO 1.79 saved 1.79
Blue Diamond Almond 6 oz jar BOGO 3.29 saved 3.29
I spent 21.00 dollars on these things, and saved JUST AS MUCH. They were all things we need (nuts are good hurricane food!). And I didn't take any extra gas to get there, because there's a drug store on practically every corner in this town. I just planned it as part of my route.
Another obsession as of late is baby clothes. I've been popping in the Good will here once per week for the past 3 weeks. I know that I will likely receive a lot of things in baby showers, however I can't see spending a grand amount of money on clothes that children grow so quickly out of! If people are going to be so gracious as to buy us a gift, I would rather it be something else that we need! At the Goodwill, 0-24 mos clothing is just 99 cents. I figure I used to smoke 2-3 packs of cigarettes per week. That's roughly 15.00 a week. So instead of spending money on cigarettes, I'm putting that money to gently used baby clothing, that I need anyway. I'm not only saving money, but I'm helping the environment. Would you believe that I have 18 outfits, 6 each for 0-3 mos, 3-6 mos and 6-9 months? The outfits are all like new. Guess how much I've spent??
$20.00!
Tell me where you can get 18 baby outfits for $20.00 brand new????
I win.
Again.
Blessings abound!
If this isn't uncanny and completely blessed by the Big Guy, I'm not sure what is!! :)
I have been praying for quite some time now for a job---any job. Currently I work for a wheelchair company ON COMMISSION and prior to that I worked for a company that sold communication devices to folks that couldn't speak for one reason or another. I realized something in all of this....I'm NOT a salesperson.
I craved getting back into my field---working with kids with disabilities, and it hasn't been easy down here---or has it?
I think the Man Upstairs has a great sense of humor, and most of the time, he puts things right in front of us, yet we are too stubborn to see it.
One year ago, before deciding to move down here, I drove to a residential based school for children with Mild to Moderate Mental Retardation and challenging behaviors. The only position they had available was $8.00 and Grant and I both agreed that I should pursue other options.
Something tells me that I should have taken that position......
I applied recently for the same job---and with a degree the pay rate increases by half. I have been saying for weeks I would work a clerical job for $12.00 and hour....and I got my pay rate....the position just happens to be IN MY FIELD!!! :)
On Saturday I had an interview at the school. On Saturday, I got hired at the school! The funny thing is, when I scheduled the interview the lady told me the only shift that was available was from 10 pm to 8 am, and was I still interested???
Although I really didn't want to work overnights, I told her I was because I NEEDED a job. Turns out during my interview they decided with my skills that I should be working with 2 little boys with challenging behaviors that were aged 4 and 5. I was a little worried with my ever-growing belly. On Sunday night I had dreams about the boys, and I felt like I was being told it would all work out!
They were unexpectedly taken from their parents, as well as 1 older brother and 2 sisters. All of the children have some type of disability. Here's the heartbreaking part......all of their disabilities were most likely drug induced. Their parents were making Meth in their house. This sort of thing is a regular occurrence here, no matter how much I wish it wasn't.
I got to meet them yesterday, and they are the sweetest little boys you could ever ask for! I finish my training next Tuesday, and I start with them on Wednesday from 2pm to 10pm!!!!!
I am so ridiculously excited!
So I guess things just have to happen in God's time, not ours. It took me a whole year to get a position here in my field, but wisdom takes time, I suppose!
I have been praying for quite some time now for a job---any job. Currently I work for a wheelchair company ON COMMISSION and prior to that I worked for a company that sold communication devices to folks that couldn't speak for one reason or another. I realized something in all of this....I'm NOT a salesperson.
I craved getting back into my field---working with kids with disabilities, and it hasn't been easy down here---or has it?
I think the Man Upstairs has a great sense of humor, and most of the time, he puts things right in front of us, yet we are too stubborn to see it.
One year ago, before deciding to move down here, I drove to a residential based school for children with Mild to Moderate Mental Retardation and challenging behaviors. The only position they had available was $8.00 and Grant and I both agreed that I should pursue other options.
Something tells me that I should have taken that position......
I applied recently for the same job---and with a degree the pay rate increases by half. I have been saying for weeks I would work a clerical job for $12.00 and hour....and I got my pay rate....the position just happens to be IN MY FIELD!!! :)
On Saturday I had an interview at the school. On Saturday, I got hired at the school! The funny thing is, when I scheduled the interview the lady told me the only shift that was available was from 10 pm to 8 am, and was I still interested???
Although I really didn't want to work overnights, I told her I was because I NEEDED a job. Turns out during my interview they decided with my skills that I should be working with 2 little boys with challenging behaviors that were aged 4 and 5. I was a little worried with my ever-growing belly. On Sunday night I had dreams about the boys, and I felt like I was being told it would all work out!
They were unexpectedly taken from their parents, as well as 1 older brother and 2 sisters. All of the children have some type of disability. Here's the heartbreaking part......all of their disabilities were most likely drug induced. Their parents were making Meth in their house. This sort of thing is a regular occurrence here, no matter how much I wish it wasn't.
I got to meet them yesterday, and they are the sweetest little boys you could ever ask for! I finish my training next Tuesday, and I start with them on Wednesday from 2pm to 10pm!!!!!
I am so ridiculously excited!
So I guess things just have to happen in God's time, not ours. It took me a whole year to get a position here in my field, but wisdom takes time, I suppose!
Saturday, June 14, 2008
But WHERE are the pictures, you ask???
Everyone wants pictures. Of my belly. Of my life in general.
Trust me, you'll get them. As soon as I can figure out who took hostage of my card reader. Or I find the cable that goes to my camera. Or the cable that goes to Grant's camera. My life is in a state of upheaval at the moment, as I am nesting. And didn't you know that cleaning for a woman means tearing the whole blessed house apart? Oh no, we don't just work on one room at a time, or one project at a time....we have to tear apart the whole blessed house and while we are completely satisfied with our accomplishments, we put everyone else in misery.
I used to think I got this trait from my mother....but then I found out my stepmother....as well as many, many other women do this when they are REALLY REALLY cleaning.
Which brings me to my mom. My mom believes in the "law of attraction". When you need something, it just comes to you. I'm hoping that is true for a job. I really need one. And I'm praying and trying to have faith that God knows what he's doing in that area of my life. The Law of Attraction does seem to ring true, however, for sheets.
Yesterday I just happened to go to Burlington coat factory for no real reason at all. I had figured that with last weeks leftover money and a check from my mom that was a gift 3 months ago that I had enough money to pay our phone bill, with $35.00 left over. I SHOULD have put that money away too, and added it to this weeks money for bills. It just so happens that there was a 2 (YES, TWO!!!!) pack of GREEN KING SHEETS, 300 thread count on CLEARANCE for 29.99 just waiting to be plucked at Burlington. I bought a new comforter from Dirt Cheap a few weeks back for $25.00. I swear Grant has had the same sheets and comforter for about 10 years now. So lets see....that's a complete new outfit (plus an extra set of sheets) for a king sized bed for less than $50. Gosh, I'm good.
So the need for new because of the new baby fortunately hasn't broken my bank. I think I should start my own decorating business. Or write a book. Gosh I have a lot of ambition!
Trust me, you'll get them. As soon as I can figure out who took hostage of my card reader. Or I find the cable that goes to my camera. Or the cable that goes to Grant's camera. My life is in a state of upheaval at the moment, as I am nesting. And didn't you know that cleaning for a woman means tearing the whole blessed house apart? Oh no, we don't just work on one room at a time, or one project at a time....we have to tear apart the whole blessed house and while we are completely satisfied with our accomplishments, we put everyone else in misery.
I used to think I got this trait from my mother....but then I found out my stepmother....as well as many, many other women do this when they are REALLY REALLY cleaning.
Which brings me to my mom. My mom believes in the "law of attraction". When you need something, it just comes to you. I'm hoping that is true for a job. I really need one. And I'm praying and trying to have faith that God knows what he's doing in that area of my life. The Law of Attraction does seem to ring true, however, for sheets.
Yesterday I just happened to go to Burlington coat factory for no real reason at all. I had figured that with last weeks leftover money and a check from my mom that was a gift 3 months ago that I had enough money to pay our phone bill, with $35.00 left over. I SHOULD have put that money away too, and added it to this weeks money for bills. It just so happens that there was a 2 (YES, TWO!!!!) pack of GREEN KING SHEETS, 300 thread count on CLEARANCE for 29.99 just waiting to be plucked at Burlington. I bought a new comforter from Dirt Cheap a few weeks back for $25.00. I swear Grant has had the same sheets and comforter for about 10 years now. So lets see....that's a complete new outfit (plus an extra set of sheets) for a king sized bed for less than $50. Gosh, I'm good.
So the need for new because of the new baby fortunately hasn't broken my bank. I think I should start my own decorating business. Or write a book. Gosh I have a lot of ambition!
Friday, June 13, 2008
Oh boy....it's a....
GIRL!!!
As you can probably tell by the changes to my layout!! I'm awfully old fashioned, and originally didn't want to know my little one's gender. On Monday I had an ultrasound, even though it's early yet.
The lady said, "You wanted to know the sex, right?" And I said....actually, no i didn't....but....DID SHE KNOW FOR SURE???"
She said she always knows the sex of her babies. I found out later from someone else that she's been wrong only once in 25 years.
She gave me an envelope which contained a reporting of my xx or xy chromosomed kiddo. When an envelope is the only thing from keeping you from knowing, you pretty much cave.
When Grant got home, I asked him if he wanted to know....which OF COURSE he did! I opened the envelope and he looked first. He of course said...."HA!!!! I WAS RIGHT! It's a boy!!!"
And then I looked. It didn't say boy at all!
There hasn't been a girl on Grant's side of the family for years. Although we were hoping.........we didn't believe it was actually possible!
Grandma Jams was ecstatic. She will no doubt plaster the girl with pink. In fact, there has already been talk of a pink tu tu......Grandfather Orvis shouted to Grandma Jo to tell her it's a girl, and the next day sent me a text that said "Thank heaven for little (AND BIG!) girls". Grandma Orvis seemed pretty happy too. Grant told her, so I'm not sure what her immediate reaction was!
The Little Princess has to share a room with her brother, so I am trying to come up with decorating ideas that will suit both. I'm pretty much set on a star theme--Christian thinks that's a good idea because he already has glow in the dark stars on his wall, and he says we can get more and put them over the babies crib! I want him to be involved as much as possible, because I'm afraid of the sibling rivalry that will occur! Atleast he'll have a little sister to protect!
Back to nesting.....
As you can probably tell by the changes to my layout!! I'm awfully old fashioned, and originally didn't want to know my little one's gender. On Monday I had an ultrasound, even though it's early yet.
The lady said, "You wanted to know the sex, right?" And I said....actually, no i didn't....but....DID SHE KNOW FOR SURE???"
She said she always knows the sex of her babies. I found out later from someone else that she's been wrong only once in 25 years.
She gave me an envelope which contained a reporting of my xx or xy chromosomed kiddo. When an envelope is the only thing from keeping you from knowing, you pretty much cave.
When Grant got home, I asked him if he wanted to know....which OF COURSE he did! I opened the envelope and he looked first. He of course said...."HA!!!! I WAS RIGHT! It's a boy!!!"
And then I looked. It didn't say boy at all!
There hasn't been a girl on Grant's side of the family for years. Although we were hoping.........we didn't believe it was actually possible!
Grandma Jams was ecstatic. She will no doubt plaster the girl with pink. In fact, there has already been talk of a pink tu tu......Grandfather Orvis shouted to Grandma Jo to tell her it's a girl, and the next day sent me a text that said "Thank heaven for little (AND BIG!) girls". Grandma Orvis seemed pretty happy too. Grant told her, so I'm not sure what her immediate reaction was!
The Little Princess has to share a room with her brother, so I am trying to come up with decorating ideas that will suit both. I'm pretty much set on a star theme--Christian thinks that's a good idea because he already has glow in the dark stars on his wall, and he says we can get more and put them over the babies crib! I want him to be involved as much as possible, because I'm afraid of the sibling rivalry that will occur! Atleast he'll have a little sister to protect!
Back to nesting.....
Thursday, June 5, 2008
My little cardinal......
Daddy has taken to call me his "little cardinal". My nesting instinct has begun, and this week I am focused on the kitchen. On Sunday when your brother and daddy went to the movie theater to watch "Indiana Jones" and have some boy time, Mommy and you had some girl time. It was a lot of hard work and Mommy was sore the next day---but I painted the horrible kitchen cupboards in our kitchen....a direct violation of our lease! Fortunately, it does look amazingly better and maybe they won't notice when we move out! Mommy learned a lot of tricks to make "something out of nothing" from her Mommy, and Daddy says that's a valuable trait to have around here---money is tight! I've managed to redecorate the kitchen for $40!!!! Try doing that on Trading spaces!!!!! :)
Next up is the bathroom, which is mostly done---I just need to paint a few things. Grandma Jams says she will help me with your room when we come to it---you are sharing a room with your brother and we have to figure out how to make room for you!
So that leaves the living room and Daddy and I's room! Do you think we can do it all before you get here so your little nest will be comfy???
Love,
Your momma,
A cardinal for the next 20 weeks or so!
week 13
Whoo hoo!
Welcome to week 13 and the second pre-natal visit with Dr. Busbee!
Mommy is feeling much, much better! I have a pretty good attitude, and I love your daddy so much now, its just not even funny! I am so surprised by how much I disliked his company before!
We went for our second pre-natal visit this week. Dr. Busbee is so nice---and so are all the nurses that work in his office! Mommy has gained 15 lbs since she found out she was pregnant, which has her a little concerned. The nurse told me that I'm pregnant and I'm supposed to gain weight---which I know is true, but I've been concentrating on trying to take a walk, swimming, or doing yoga every day now that I'm feeling so much better. Mommy wants to stay strong, because she knows she'll need to be when you come into the world!
Dr. Busbee offered some screenings to me today---he said that mostly all they do is cause worry, because there are chances that they can turn up as false positives for things such as spina bifida, Down's syndrome and cerebral palsy. I told him that I would love you no matter if you came out to be a flying purple people eater and that the pregnancy would continue regardless!
Next he put some goop on you and we tried to listen really hard for your heartbeat.......and you weren't up for playing apparently! We could hear my heartbeat, and digestion sounds, but no little you!
Dr. Busbee wants to schedule and internal ultrasound for dating, because maybe you're not as big as we thought! He didn't seem too horribly worried, so I'm trying not to be either!
Daddy got a new job with a tree company---he works outside in the hot Alabama sun all day, but he is making good money and will be home every night and on the weekends! Now it's time for mommy to find a good job and we'll be all set for your arrival!
Here's what's supposedly going on in your little world----unless we're way off on development!
Welcome to week 13 and the second pre-natal visit with Dr. Busbee!
Mommy is feeling much, much better! I have a pretty good attitude, and I love your daddy so much now, its just not even funny! I am so surprised by how much I disliked his company before!
We went for our second pre-natal visit this week. Dr. Busbee is so nice---and so are all the nurses that work in his office! Mommy has gained 15 lbs since she found out she was pregnant, which has her a little concerned. The nurse told me that I'm pregnant and I'm supposed to gain weight---which I know is true, but I've been concentrating on trying to take a walk, swimming, or doing yoga every day now that I'm feeling so much better. Mommy wants to stay strong, because she knows she'll need to be when you come into the world!
Dr. Busbee offered some screenings to me today---he said that mostly all they do is cause worry, because there are chances that they can turn up as false positives for things such as spina bifida, Down's syndrome and cerebral palsy. I told him that I would love you no matter if you came out to be a flying purple people eater and that the pregnancy would continue regardless!
Next he put some goop on you and we tried to listen really hard for your heartbeat.......and you weren't up for playing apparently! We could hear my heartbeat, and digestion sounds, but no little you!
Dr. Busbee wants to schedule and internal ultrasound for dating, because maybe you're not as big as we thought! He didn't seem too horribly worried, so I'm trying not to be either!
Daddy got a new job with a tree company---he works outside in the hot Alabama sun all day, but he is making good money and will be home every night and on the weekends! Now it's time for mommy to find a good job and we'll be all set for your arrival!
Here's what's supposedly going on in your little world----unless we're way off on development!
Week Thirteen
- Your infant is about 2.91 inches (7.4cm) and weighs around 0.81 ounce (23gm) - This is about the same weight as 4 quarters.
- If you could peek in again you may spot your baby as he begins to practice inhaling and exhaling movements
- Eyes and ears continue to move and develop
- Baby's neck is getting longer, and the chin no longer is resting on his chest
- Her hands are becoming more functional - Your baby may find it comforting to start playing with her fist.
- At this point all nourishment is received from the placenta
- On your next doctor visit you should be able to hear heartbeat with a Doppler by now - (Don't worry though if you can't, the heartbeat can be confirmed through U/S). Your baby's heartbeat is much rapider than your own and may remind you of the race
Monday, May 26, 2008
A day remembered.....
Memorial Day comes and goes every year, and while I know this special day is set aside for our service men and women, I sometimes find myself getting nostalgic about all the special people in my life.
Today I have spent most of the morning thinking about:
*All of my friends and family that have served our country so that we could be free to worship, work, live, and play as we wish.
*Our service men and women that continue to serve our country, so that we might live at peace.
*It has been one whole year since I've seen my mother.
*Days gone by when I used to march in LaFargeville's Memorial Day parade, and working at the UMC for the bar-b-que.
And now that I have a little one inside of me, I think about all the people that are special to me that I miss so much, and I can't wait for you to meet---whether its in heaven with our Father, or right here on earth.
HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY EVERYONE!
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Skipping on to week 12.....
Quite a bit has happened developmental wise since I last wrote....but to be honest I was just a big ball of hormones and tired and nauseous to care too much about writing.
I'm now edging out of the first trimester and starting to feel much better. I went ahead and bought some maternity clothes in week 10 because I was down to one pair of pants that weren't, exactly....ahem, FLATTERING.
I'm not showing too much at all (I PROMISE I will get around to showing pictures!). People have said I am glowing...and I AM feeling much better and more productive.
Although I'm no longer feeling nauseous, I sometimes have to force myself to eat because I feel full all the time and the "little monster" has stopped saying "FEED ME SEYMORE!!!!"
I have had affairs with the following food----raisin brain, salami, toasted tuna sandwhiches, mandarin oranges, rootbeer, manicotti, and milk. I am increasingly thirsty and have been drinking a lot of water and milk and apple juice. Oh and CHOCOLATE MILK.....this baby LOVES chocolate milk.
Although everything I've read tells me that you are too small to feel, I am feeling little butterfly flutters ever now and then......and it's not gas despite what Grant says!
Grant thinks the baby is a girl. I don't want to know the sex of the baby, but he does. Should be an interesting war the next little bit. :)
I'm now edging out of the first trimester and starting to feel much better. I went ahead and bought some maternity clothes in week 10 because I was down to one pair of pants that weren't, exactly....ahem, FLATTERING.
I'm not showing too much at all (I PROMISE I will get around to showing pictures!). People have said I am glowing...and I AM feeling much better and more productive.
Although I'm no longer feeling nauseous, I sometimes have to force myself to eat because I feel full all the time and the "little monster" has stopped saying "FEED ME SEYMORE!!!!"
I have had affairs with the following food----raisin brain, salami, toasted tuna sandwhiches, mandarin oranges, rootbeer, manicotti, and milk. I am increasingly thirsty and have been drinking a lot of water and milk and apple juice. Oh and CHOCOLATE MILK.....this baby LOVES chocolate milk.
Although everything I've read tells me that you are too small to feel, I am feeling little butterfly flutters ever now and then......and it's not gas despite what Grant says!
Grant thinks the baby is a girl. I don't want to know the sex of the baby, but he does. Should be an interesting war the next little bit. :)
Week Twelve
- Vocal cords begin to form -
- Tastebuds begin to form
- The brain is nearly finished developing, as well as nerves---the baby can feel some kinds of pain at this time.
- Those precious eyes begin to move closer together -
- Ears shift to their normal place on the side of the head
- Intestines move farther in to your child's body
- His or her liver begins to function -
- The pancreas begins to produce insulin
- Guess what? Your baby's average size is now at a whopping length: 2.13 inches (5.4cm) and weight: 0.49 ounce (14gm)
Friday, May 2, 2008
A swim in Government Red Tape.....
The red tape backstroke in the pregnancy pool is quite easy, to my surprise. This morning I went downtown to apply for Pregnancy Medicaid. Apparently the computers were down and they told me to come back at 1:00. I took this to be a sign of UTTER DISASTER.
So I drove all the way back home....and shopped. This is the perfect thing for an unemployed mommy to do! Shopping relieves mega boat loads of stress! I also had a California Roll for lunch, which was DELICIOUS!
I drove back down to the MOM Care office and this wonderful gentleman ushered me in the room. I needed proof of pregnancy (a note from my doctor you sickos!!) CHECK. Social Security Card. CHECK. Identification. CHECK. Income from April (very easy, there wasn't any!) Check. And now I am in the system. I can't go to the doctor I want to, but atleast I know this whole shindig will be paid for, which is an ease on my brain to say the least!
Oh, and for all you jokesters out there that think the baby is going to be a giraffe???? Kiss my arse!!!! I realized a bit ago this baby has to come out of me.....and being an 8 pound football is terrifying enough without adding a 4 foot long neck!
Thanks for the congrats from everyone!
Keep checking in....
Oh, and to comment??? Below this blog there is a link (albeit tiny) that says 0 comments. If you click on it, you should be able to comment. You might have to set up a blog though, I'm not sure.
Love you all!
Momma K
So I drove all the way back home....and shopped. This is the perfect thing for an unemployed mommy to do! Shopping relieves mega boat loads of stress! I also had a California Roll for lunch, which was DELICIOUS!
I drove back down to the MOM Care office and this wonderful gentleman ushered me in the room. I needed proof of pregnancy (a note from my doctor you sickos!!) CHECK. Social Security Card. CHECK. Identification. CHECK. Income from April (very easy, there wasn't any!) Check. And now I am in the system. I can't go to the doctor I want to, but atleast I know this whole shindig will be paid for, which is an ease on my brain to say the least!
Oh, and for all you jokesters out there that think the baby is going to be a giraffe???? Kiss my arse!!!! I realized a bit ago this baby has to come out of me.....and being an 8 pound football is terrifying enough without adding a 4 foot long neck!
Thanks for the congrats from everyone!
Keep checking in....
Oh, and to comment??? Below this blog there is a link (albeit tiny) that says 0 comments. If you click on it, you should be able to comment. You might have to set up a blog though, I'm not sure.
Love you all!
Momma K
Thursday, May 1, 2008
We told your brother today! (9weeks)
Your brother just turned five on Monday the 28th of April. He spent the night lastnight and that's when daddy and I gave him some of his birthday presents. Your daddy told him about you and he is VERY excited. He wants to have a baby sister he said....he also said he doesn't mind sharing his room with you.
He thinks we should name you Claire if you are a girl, and John if you are a boy. He asked if he could see you and I showed him a picture of what you probably looked like from my book. He says you look not quite right....but that you have a cute rump! :)
He told me that I can't drink beer anymore and I have to have lots of fruits, vegetables and juice to keep you healthy. Boy your brother is smart!
He asked how you got in my belly. Then he asked how the doctor put you in my belly and I said that daddy put you in my belly, and he of course wanted to know how that happened! Your brother is VERY inquisitive! (Apparently the stork DOES NOT bring babies, Mommy has discovered!)
We had Daddy's friend Jeff over for dinner lastnight and he said "Did you know Miss K has a baby in her belly????" I think he will be my little reporter. He will probably tell everyone at school today. Gosh I love him, and I know you will too!
Here's what you look like at 9 weeks. The major development is done....now you just have to grow!!!! (AND SO DOES MOMMY IT WOULD SEEM)
He thinks we should name you Claire if you are a girl, and John if you are a boy. He asked if he could see you and I showed him a picture of what you probably looked like from my book. He says you look not quite right....but that you have a cute rump! :)
He told me that I can't drink beer anymore and I have to have lots of fruits, vegetables and juice to keep you healthy. Boy your brother is smart!
He asked how you got in my belly. Then he asked how the doctor put you in my belly and I said that daddy put you in my belly, and he of course wanted to know how that happened! Your brother is VERY inquisitive! (Apparently the stork DOES NOT bring babies, Mommy has discovered!)
We had Daddy's friend Jeff over for dinner lastnight and he said "Did you know Miss K has a baby in her belly????" I think he will be my little reporter. He will probably tell everyone at school today. Gosh I love him, and I know you will too!
Here's what you look like at 9 weeks. The major development is done....now you just have to grow!!!! (AND SO DOES MOMMY IT WOULD SEEM)
Week Nine
- Baby has begun movement - While still too small for me to feel, you are is wriggling, shifting, and dancing already! Makes you almost wish for a window to peek in whenever you want!
- Most joints are formed now - and trust that your little one is practicing bending and flexing.
- Fetus will curve its fingers around an object placed in the palm of its hand - This is amazing to see! At only nine weeks, if you happen to have an ultrasound, you may observe your infant fascinated by everything he or she can lay their fingers on (mainly other fingers, toes, ears and nose!
- Fingerprints are already evident in the skin
- Average size this week -- length 0.9 inch (2.3cm), weight 0.07 ounce (2gm)
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
The first trip to the Dr!
Mommy went to the doctor for our first pre-natal visit today! Mommy wants very much to have you naturally with a mid-wife, but there aren't a lot of options in Alabama, because apparently midwifery is illegal in Alabama!
Dr. Busbee is a very nice man and has brought MANY babies into the world. He taught your daddy to ride a bike when he was little. I asked Dr. Busbee if he wanted to teach another little one how to ride a bike....and he said he was too old to run next to the bike anymore and would need a scooter....which is just the business your mommy is going to be in soon!!!
He told me to tell Daddy that he'll be okay....... :)
Mommy has gained 6 lbs. since her last visit to the doctor, but I was wearing my boots! :) next time I'll be sure to wear shoes I can take off!!!! :) Dr. Busbee said you will be here December 2nd or the 3rd and told me I could go about my days normally, and to make sure I feed you well, but not too well! :)
Dr. Busbee is a very nice man and has brought MANY babies into the world. He taught your daddy to ride a bike when he was little. I asked Dr. Busbee if he wanted to teach another little one how to ride a bike....and he said he was too old to run next to the bike anymore and would need a scooter....which is just the business your mommy is going to be in soon!!!
He told me to tell Daddy that he'll be okay....... :)
Mommy has gained 6 lbs. since her last visit to the doctor, but I was wearing my boots! :) next time I'll be sure to wear shoes I can take off!!!! :) Dr. Busbee said you will be here December 2nd or the 3rd and told me I could go about my days normally, and to make sure I feed you well, but not too well! :)
Sunday, April 27, 2008
And in the 8th week, there was a thunderstorm!
You are now 8 weeks old. Here is a picture of what you look like. Unfortunately, I didn't take a picture of my belly, but you are getting bigger, which is evident by the fact that I can only wear one pair of pants.
This week, your daddy and I went to Grand Central to see a band....and it was LOUD! As I sipped on a cranberry juice, Daddy said he wondered what you thought of the noise. He thinks you're like him and probably doesn't want to be disturbed. "QUIET OUT THERE....Don't you guys know I'm trying to sleep????" He says that you elbowed me, but I can't feel any of that yet. You're still too tiny and haven't begun to move just yet!
Week Eight
- Cartilage and bones begin to form - At the end of this week you will have already completed 1/5th of the journey to your birthday!
- The basic structure of the eye is well underway - The position is more "newborn" like already!
- The tongue begins to develop
- Intestines move out of the umbilical cord into the abdomen.
- Body grows and makes room - Two months along and this little one is growing inside and out by leaps and bounds!
- The fingers and toes have appeared but are webbed and short
- Baby's length (crown to rump) is 0.61 inch (1.6cm) and weight is 0.04 ounce (1gm)
Today just so happens to be your Grandfather Orvis' birthday. Happy birthday Dad! We couldn't send him too much, but we
promised a much BIGGER gift would come in December!
Saturday, April 19, 2008
We told daddy's parents today!
Today we told daddy's parents that you are coming into the world. Daddy had to work, so Mommy went over to visit Grandma Jams and Do-dah in Pensacola, FL. Mommy brought her Belly book, a way to keep track of your growing in me, and gave it to Grandma Jams. At first she didn't understand, but she soon put two and two together and realized I was pregnant! Grandma Jams has been asking for you for a long time, and is very excited. Her and Do-dah took us to T.J. Maxx and bought you the most beautiful Moses basket for you to sleep in when you go to other people's houses! Do-dah picked out your very first outfit, a Calvin Klein white velour track suit. Gosh, you're going to be spoiled! I don't think I've ever owned ANYTHING Calvin Klein. After we shopped, we went out to dinner by the water.
On second thought, I guess mommy is spoiled too!
Mommy spent the night and went to church with Grandma Jams the next day. On the bulletin it said "Amazing Grace" which is what Grandma Jams has taken to calling you (We like Gracie Mae). She is hoping you are a girl. Mommy and Grandma Jams are very sorry if you are a boy and we have scarred you for life!
We had Starbucks---Mommy has been drinking a lot of smoothies and milkshakes and things of that nature because it seems to settle her stomach. After that we went to the beach in Navarre, which is absolutely gorgeous. Your mommy looked like a tourist again, because it is only April and I was the only Yankee in the water! The St. Lawrence River is so much colder than the Gulf of Mexico! :) Mommy just loves the beach. I can't wait until you make me really big and I'm out there surfing the waves!
On second thought, I guess mommy is spoiled too!
Mommy spent the night and went to church with Grandma Jams the next day. On the bulletin it said "Amazing Grace" which is what Grandma Jams has taken to calling you (We like Gracie Mae). She is hoping you are a girl. Mommy and Grandma Jams are very sorry if you are a boy and we have scarred you for life!
We had Starbucks---Mommy has been drinking a lot of smoothies and milkshakes and things of that nature because it seems to settle her stomach. After that we went to the beach in Navarre, which is absolutely gorgeous. Your mommy looked like a tourist again, because it is only April and I was the only Yankee in the water! The St. Lawrence River is so much colder than the Gulf of Mexico! :) Mommy just loves the beach. I can't wait until you make me really big and I'm out there surfing the waves!
Friday, April 11, 2008
Surprise, surprise!
Well, it would seem that by the awesome power of the universe that I am pregnant. I just found out today! This blog will now serve as a way for my family and friends to be connected to my experiences!
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